Penny Romsey, 67, who is 32 years younger than Philip, remained close to the Duke for years after he took it upon himself in 1994 to teach her carriage driving.
For years, no private royal event is complete without an invitation to Penny Brabourne. Around
Now the 67-year-old countess – Penelope ‘Penny’ Knatchbull, previously known as Lady Romsey and later Lady Brabourne – will join the monarch,
Buckingham Palace said the Queen faced ‘some very difficult’ decisions as she selected the 30 guests permitted under Covid-19 rules, from the original 800-strong congregation, and had tried to ensure all branches of the duke’s family were there.
Penny’s inclusion in the small group of 30 is an indication as to how close she and Philip remained until her death today.
The Duke of Edinburgh’s carriage-driving companion – one of his closest confidantes – Countess Mountbatten of Burma will join mourners at Philip’s funeral (pictured together in 1975)
Penny will join the Queen and Philip’s four children and eight grandchildren and their respective spouses at the service in St George’s Chapel on Saturday.
These include Jack Brooksbank, the husband of Eugenie, daughter of the duchess and the Duke of York, and Beatrice’s husband Edoardo Mapelli Mozzi.
Three German relatives – whose ancestors were denied a place at Princess Elizabeth and Philip’s wedding because of anti-German feeling after the second war – have been included.
Others on the guest list include the Queen’s first cousins Princess Alexandra, the Duke of Gloucester and the Duke of Kent, who loyally supported the monarch and Philip by carrying out royal duties over the decades.
She first met the Duke – who is 30 years her senior – at a polo match when she was 20 and in a relationship with Lord Romsey, Earl Mountbatten’s grandson Norton Knatchbull (pictured the trio together in 2009)
But the most prominent name missing from the list is Prince Harry’s wife Meghan, who has stayed at home in Los Angeles.
Also is missing is the Queen’s cousin, Prince Michael of Kent, 78, who is not a working royal.
Who is invited?
- The Queen
- The Prince of Wales
- The Duchess of Cornwall
- The Duke of Cambridge
- The Duchess of Cambridge
- The Duke of Sussex
- The Duke of York
- Princess Beatrice
- Edoardo Mapelli Mozzi
- Princess Eugenie
- Jack Brooksbank
- The Earl of Wessex
- The Countess of Wessex
- Lady Louise Windsor
- Viscount Severn
- The Princess Royal
- Vice Admiral Sir Timothy Laurence
- Peter Phillips
- Zara Phillips
- Mike Tindall
- Earl of Snowdon
- Lady Sarah Chatto
- Daniel Chatto
- Duke of Gloucester
- Duke of Kent
- Princess Alexandra
- Bernhard, Hereditary Prince of Baden
- Prince Donatus, Landgrave of Hesse
- Prince Philipp of Hohenlohe-Langenburg
- The Countess Mountbatten of Burma
There was also not room for the spouses of the Queen’s cousins – the Duchess of Gloucester and the Duchess of Kent, nor Prince Michael’s often controversial wife, Princess Michael of Kent.
Formerly Penelope Meredith Eastwood, Lady Brabourne is the daughter of a retired major.
Penny’s father left school at 15 and became a butcher, like his father and grandfather before him but died a wealthy man having founded the Angus Steakhouse chain of restaurants which he sold for several millions.
She first met the Duke – who is 30 years her senior – at a polo match when she was 20 and in a relationship with Lord Romsey, Earl Mountbatten’s grandson Norton Knatchbull.
Penny’s father, the short, dapper Reg Eastwood, had sold his steakhouse chain to the Golden Egg company and was living with his wife in Majorca when his daughter — a graduate of the London School of Economics – married Norton.
The wedding had been delayed for eight weeks because five months earlier, on August 25, IRA bombers blew up a small boat in the sea off Mullaghmore, Co. Sligo, where Lord Mountbatten had a holiday home.
It killed Mountbatten, Norton’s 14-year-old younger brother Nicholas (after whom he was to name his own son), his paternal grandmother the Dowager Lady Brabourne and a local boy who was with the family.
Nicholas’s twin brother, Timothy, and his parents were all injured. It was an intensely moving moment as the couple arrived in an ambulance for their son’s wedding.
Mountbatten’s murder meant that Broadlands became the newlyweds’ first and only home. Brought up in his parents’ comfortable 18th century country house in Kent, Norton dreaded it. He never wanted the burden of Broadlands and knew he could hardly live up to his illustrious grandfather as the local ‘lord of the manor’.
A family friend previously revealed: ‘On the other hand, Penny was always comfortable there because she knew it was their duty.’
But Norton fell out with the locals when, in the Eighties, he tried to get planning permission for Tesco to build a superstore on the estate.
Duke of Edinburgh took it upon himself in 1994 to teach Penny carriage driving and the pair travelled the country together
Feelings ran so high that opponents of the development carried a burning effigy of their High Steward through the streets of Romsey. The supermarket was never built.
Meanwhile the family’s original closeness to those in The Firm came through Norton’s friendship with Prince Charles.
This went back to when they were schoolboys together at Gordonstoun and Norton, a year older, was deputed to show Charles the ropes.
She welcomed a son Nicholas in 1981 and a daughter Lady Alexandra a year later.
In 1986, she gave birth to daughter, who had kidney cancer and died aged five nearly 20 years ago.
Just like his father and Charles, Nicholas was a year older than Prince William and was given the responsibility of showing him the ropes at Eton.
The Queen and Duke of Edinburgh attended Penny’s wedding to her husband Norton at Romsey Abbey in Hampshire
However, starting as a teenager, Nicholas’s life has been devastated by drugs. He has spent years on crack cocaine and heroin, living in drug dens and bedsits, is covered in tattoos and has found occasional work as a club DJ under the name ‘Minimal Criminal’.
Several years ago, he became engaged to single mother-of-two Zeaphena Badley, a dreadlocked Anglo-Jamaican girl from a shabby London council estate.
Meanwhile in 2010, Norton moved to the Bahamas to embark on a new life with Lady Nuttall, 60.
At that time, Brabourne gave up all public duties and his estranged wife took over many of his responsibilities.
Royal expert Ingrid Seward previously said Prince Philip supported Penny when Norton left her.
Royal expert Ingrid Seward previously said Prince Philip supported Penny when her husband Norton left her in 2010
However, their affair fizzled out and he returned in 2014 to Broadlands, where the Queen began her honeymoon.
One of her oldest family friends previously revealed: ‘I often wonder how their mother, Penny, copes with all the tragedy she has suffered.
‘But she’s a strong character – much stronger than Norton. I think Penny gets it from her father. He was a man who always seemed to know where he was going.’
She has always been close to the royal family, as one friend who has known her since those early days previously recalled: ‘She was one of the most natural young women I have ever met, outgoing but not brash or flirty.’
In later years, she became one of the Duke of Edinburgh’s regular companion at carriage-driving events, and painted watercolours together.
Now the 67-year-old countess – Penelope ‘Penny’ Knatchbull, previously known as Lady Romsey and later Lady Brabourne – will join the monarch at the service in St George’s Chapel on Saturday.
She has been a regular guest at the weekend house parties he holds at secluded Wood Farm on the Sandringham Estate in Norfolk. She never stays when the Queen is there.
She has been a decorative and determined carriage-driving companion of Prince Philip (which has made her the talk of countless gossip columns).
Gossip about them has never been allowed to spoil their relationship. It was said that Penny’s enthusiasm for the sport was crucial in keeping Philip’s aged hands on the reins.
Of all the women’s names that have been linked with Philip, Penny’s is easily the most enduring, the one that even now so late in his life, continues to raise unwelcome attention.
Penny has been a regular guest at the weekend house parties he holds at secluded Wood Farm on the Sandringham Estate in Norfolk. She never stays when the Queen is there (pictured together in 2009)
There was a time, indeed, when courtiers referred to the ‘Penny Romsey situation’ — this before her now-estranged husband succeeded to his father’s title of Baron Brabourne a decade ago.
The phrase had emerged in royal corridors some years earlier, after details of a lengthy and rambling telephone conversation between Penny and Prince Philip were leaked by an electronic eavesdropper.
With a warm familiarity, they were overheard chewing over some of the Royal Family’s most private and pressing issues, from Charles and Diana’s divorce, to Mrs Camilla Parker Bowles. Even the Queen Mother’s hip operation was discussed.
Prince Philip valued her thoughts and opinions. After all, Penny was the first person to suggest that Charles and Diana were ill-suited because they had virtually nothing in common. The full details of that late-night call have never been revealed.
She has been a decorative and determined carriage-driving companion of Prince Philip (pictured together in 2015)
Meanwhile Prince Charles is also a close friend of the family, giving away Penny’s daughter Alexandra at her 2018 wedding
But after the Squidgygate and Camillagate affairs — when telephone calls between Diana and her friend James Gilbey, and Charles and his then mistress Camilla Parker Bowles were intercepted and then leaked — the taped conversation was inevitably dubbed ‘Dukegate’, much to Philip’s understandable anger.
Even though their conversation had little in common with the intimacies and implications of the others, some interpreted it as an indication of their closeness.
Writing last year, Seward commented: ‘When I saw Philip and Penny gliding around the dance floor at the Royal Yacht Squadron Ball during Cowes Week one year, neither of them gave a damn who saw them or what anyone might say. ‘
‘I noticed that Philip was completely in rhythm with the beautiful Penny. He’s undoubtedly close to her and is a supportive friend and mentor.’
Penny has lived with Norton at Broadlands throughout their marriage (pictured, the Queen and Prince Philip at the estate in 1947)
Meanwhile Penny was also credited with persuading him to give up his driving licence after his 2019 accident.
The Queen was said to be ‘relaxed’ about the constant topic of Philip and Penny. As a figure close to the royals previously said: ‘She shrugs her shoulders and says: ‘Philip likes to have her around.”
As for Philip, he ‘didn’t believe he had anything to feel guilty about as he didn’t give a damn what the world thinks’.